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[image] ⊹ things littles secretly want, but (almost) never ask for.. ꒰ #agere thread by a cg ꒱

[image] ⟢ reasons why a little might be/feel extra clingy .ᐟ ꒰ #agere thread by a cg ꒱

[image] ꒰ thread of communication cards for nonverbal, semiverbal, or speech-struggling littles + more . . . ꒱ — #agere thread by a caregiver

[image] ⟣ how to regress when it doesn’t come easily ⟢ ꒰ა #agere thread by based on my experiences as a little and caregiver! ໒꒱

[image] ⟣ understanding different forms of regression ⟢ ꒰ა #agere thread by a caregiver ໒꒱

[text] “you did so great!” “oh baby, i’m so proud of you” “good job, little one” “that’s my babygirl / babyboy / baby!” “mama / dada is so happy for their kiddo ..” “well done, sweetheart” “you deserve a big star ⭐️”

[image] ⊹ how to understand the difference between:: wanting/needing company x needing to be babysat/cared for ꒰ა #agere thread by a cg ໒꒱

[image] little who constantly feels clingy, sensitive and on the verge of tears, always reaching out for mama/papa for comfort and reassurance. × mama/papa who is always searching for gentle ways to soothe their baby, paying attention to every small feeling, doing everything they can.

[image] things i personally love about being a caretaker! ꒰ა #agere thread by a cg ໒꒱

[text] permanently / partially regressed little who yearns for me, always seeking comfort and happily yapping with ma / da. x mama / dada who is deeply, purely platonically in love with their baby, doing everything necessary for their comfort and happiness.

[text] tiny who’s deeply attached to their carer, always thinking and missing them, wanting to spend every little moment together x carer whose mind is always on their baby, constantly reminding them how loved, precious and special they are, making sure they always feel cared for ♡

[image] all pink baby bunny bedtime .ᐟ

[text] gentle reminder that you don’t need an official dynamic to be a caregiver. if you have care in your heart and genuinely care about the persons beside you, that already means the world. sometimes small acts of kindness and warmth create the safest spaces. :)

[image] mama/dada who always keeps their baby’s paci safe in a special little case, along with a simple mask in case their precious little one needs it while out in public. caring for every tiny detail with so much love, so their baby can feel comfy and still play happily even outside.

[text] “come here, little one” “mama / dada is right here with you, i’m not going to leave” “it’s okay to struggle, hm? you can cry in my arms, you are safe with me” “let’s find a way to cure your pain together” “i’m still proud of you. always.”

[text] having your own shared board with your little on pinterest, filled with :: ˖ activities sheets for them ˖ comfy daily routines ˖ things that remind you of each other and your own dynamic ˖ a lot of motivation ˖ plans for moments you want to create together . . .

[image] see this little bunny? his tummy is full of yummy food, that’s why he has so much energy and such soft, pretty fur. that’s why you should eat well too, little one. so you can hop hop around, play lots, feel strong, and have as much happy energy as the bunny.

[text] autistic carer x autistic tiny who have the same hyperfixation, spending hours talking about it, sharing discoveries and happily infodumping together.

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[text] baby who :: “i don’t want to be a burden” “i want to be tiny, but im scared” “can you help me, please?” and mama / papa who :: “it’s okay to be tiny, sweetheart. i’m here with you.” “i miss my little one so much!” “hmm.. where is my beautiful baby?”

[image] creating a cozy tent for your little so that when they feel overstimulated, they have a safe space to self-regulate and rest at their own pace. adding a lot of title’s love, soft blankets, dim lights, comfort items and judgment-free so they feel protected and can unwind gently.

[image] tiny and carer who are always holding hands, gently playing with each other’s fingers to soothe themselves, bringing comfort, safety and a quiet sense of connection between them..

[image] the way littles look at their caregivers after being bratty, now being all soft and seeking reassurance:

[text] when you want a dynamic so badly, but the fear in your heart is just as big at the moment.

[text] tiny who always feels like they’re being a burden, constantly trying to suppress their little side and getting overwhelmed easily because of it x carer who always encourages and reassuring them. remembering that they don’t need to hide their feelings around them.

[image] being the mama of a spoiled little girl is a kind of devotion, where everything you see carries a trace of her, and the world itself starts to feel shaped around your tiny little princess.